Or accept that manuals (for subarus anyway) are likely to need more maintenance and repairs like you’re describing and keep rolling.
I don’t always avoid manuals and don’t steer people from them as a rule - but I think it’s helpful to at least be clear and make an informed decision about facts. It’s common for people to think manuals are cheaper, lower maintenance, more reliable, have better torque, or are better for towing - which is all a big load of archaic hippo shat for Subarus.
I drive XT6s as daily drivers - I can do it relatively inexpensively and reliably but I’m not kidding myself thinking they’re “better” than thousands of other options. I just know them well enough to accept it and circumvent some downsides. Same with manuals.
Im speaking for Subarus - I have no idea if other manufacturers are similar or not.