ok got it all figgered out, when it was brought there was a spare on the car, so thats why the fuse was in (i should have checked i kno but hey i stuffed up), never got an owners manual with the car, but the seller did throw in a haynes manual, and even in the wiring digrams theres no FWD light, so basicaly its got new tyres all round, pulled the fuse, and now its working fine, and its raining here. next time i'll definaly check the FWD fuse but im considering my self lucky this time.