Thanks for all your input. I will try to find the connector under the hood on the left strut.
Yes, a switch would be the best thing, but there is just not much room in this car for switches.
We have used mostly Ford products over the years, and didn't have to worry about DRL's. Believe it or not, on our Chevys that we do have, there is a dash button labeled "surveil", that disables the DRL's.
Again, thanks for all your input.