Well the Forrester is on its way back. My wife and a friend drove the 200 miles yesterday to pick it up. Shortly after leaving the engine light came on. They went back and had that fixed. But by then it was getting dark and neither wanted to drive at night so they found a motel. Now they're headed back. The mechanic confirmed the problem was caused by not changing the oil often enough. Also driving mainly short distances without letting the turbo cool. So from now on we change the oil every 3000 miles, I sit in the car for a couple minutes before turning it off, and hope my daughter does the same when she leaves for college in the fall, taking the Subaru with her.
Thanks for all the help. I assume I won't be back here anytime soon.
kevin