Thanks for all the input and solid information, I appreciate it very much! I have good news, we met with our Subaru dealer head honcho today, he is a kind and sensitive man. We now have a new Outback tucked away in our garage, in place of our Forester Touring. The Outback, complete with paddles for shifting, works well on our hill and I'm sure, on all the other hills in these excited states. WE were treated well and very fairly by Modesto Subaru, kudos to them!
Amen, all done!
Bye Bye!