Thanks again guys.
Today we flushed the diff after one last test with the mechanic (my brother) behind the wheel.
For him, the car is working very well, no shaking at all and the noise is very low and only when turning left, he’s not sure that it came from the diff, maybe shaft.
He has experience with bad transmission but not on Subarus.
Before flushing, we took temperature of the diff : 150 °F on each side (after about 12 aggressive miles)
One shaft was hotter than the other and was missing grease, we’ll replace it (maybe it’s the noise).
We also think that the dipstick o-ring is bad, may the reason why we have oil exiting from the top.
The oil level was good, the oil is very nice (no metal or ATF).
As you can see on pictures, residue on the plug is very limited.
For my brother, it’s premature to replace the entire trans now, he would like to change seals and the retainer on the RH side, and put it back as it was at the beginning (loosen 3 notches).
He think that what is leaking is aluminium that come from the retainer or the bloc, maybe dead retainer o-ring and vibrations ?
Our problem is how to change the retainer without loosing the backlash setting, we will count the turns extra carefully, any other method ?
Do you think it could be better doing the FSM AT-78 procedure ? Any advice ?
Maybe, as you said, all this will end up changing the trans, but we will try not to.
Lucky Texan, thank you for your advice about the torque converter, we know that’s an issue, my brother want to remove it with the trans, I hope we can avoid all this…